so a very intriguing question was brought to my mind today
Why is it that when a guy is afraid to commit .. they run?
I posted this question on twitter and got some awesome feedback.
My first response was: because it's easier than standing there and admitting we're afraid. We'd rather show no emotion than show fear or weakness.
Second response: Most guys run because we aren't prepared to settle down however we want the companionship of the woman we pursue. Then there are some dudes that run because they are afraid the might actually fall in love.
Third response: It's not weakness, it's more like uncertainty. & just because he leaves or runs doesn't mean he stopped feeling you.
my ultimate outlook on it all for guys and girls is that if you're so afraid why even get involved if you're not ready for a relationship. But most want the perks .. the benefits .. without the title. I think running shows a sign of weakness.
IF you cant take the HEAT then get out the kitchen
you may just be letting the love of your life walk out that front door .. missing out a good thing. That particular person could be Mr. Right or Mrs. Right .. but if you mess that up because you're afraid you might just get LEFT
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