.. if you cant take the HEAT ... then get out the kitchen ..

so a very intriguing question was brought to my mind today
Why is it that when a guy is afraid to commit .. they run?
I posted this question on twitter and got some awesome feedback.

My first response was: because it's easier than standing there and admitting we're afraid. We'd rather show no emotion than show fear or weakness.

Second response: Most guys run because we aren't prepared to settle down however we want the companionship of the woman we pursue. Then there are some dudes that run because they are afraid the might actually fall in love.

Third response: It's not weakness, it's more like uncertainty. & just because he leaves or runs doesn't mean he stopped feeling you.

my ultimate outlook on it all for guys and girls is that if you're so afraid why even get involved if you're not ready for a relationship. But most want the perks .. the benefits .. without the title. I think running shows a sign of weakness.

IF you cant take the HEAT then get out the kitchen

you may just be letting the love of your life walk out that front door .. missing out a good thing. That particular person could be Mr. Right or Mrs. Right .. but if you mess that up because you're afraid you might just get LEFT

Authentic Overtime

Unique, Tasteful, Original, and Edgy is what I call Stephanie Gordelle.

she is a Junior attending the Illustrious Clark Atlanta University.

Miss Gordelle is majoring in Fashion Design && Business.

Born in Jamaica .. resides in ATL .. & her dreams will be made a reality in London.

she is looking towards and slowing building her empire in the Fashion Industry.

I think she has a solid foundation already .. just patiently awaiting for BIG things.

she aspires to be a prolific Fashion Designer focusing on High Fashion and Simple Elegance with and Edgy side.

this past Spring Stephanie gave Birth to Dankel .. and Dankel is not a human being

it's one of the loves of her life.

Dankel = a Sunglasses Line also known as "HER Beautifull Mistake."

Bringing "simple Elegance with an edge to notoriety.

the first pair of Dankels were showcased by Project NEXT.

Dankels' bring power and purpose to the existence of the EYE.

These Sunglasses are original eye ware that happen to be unique ..

be sure to follow the rising STAR on "tweeter" @_DanKel_

&& become a fan on FB http://www.facebook.com/pages/DanKel-by-Stephanie-Gordelle

and if you'd like your own custom, hand made DanKel Sunglasses she can be contacted via email

s.gordelle@gmail.com

everyone meet Stephanie Gordelle another student putting in Authentic Overtime to make her dreams a reality!