.. if you cant take the HEAT ... then get out the kitchen ..

so a very intriguing question was brought to my mind today
Why is it that when a guy is afraid to commit .. they run?
I posted this question on twitter and got some awesome feedback.

My first response was: because it's easier than standing there and admitting we're afraid. We'd rather show no emotion than show fear or weakness.

Second response: Most guys run because we aren't prepared to settle down however we want the companionship of the woman we pursue. Then there are some dudes that run because they are afraid the might actually fall in love.

Third response: It's not weakness, it's more like uncertainty. & just because he leaves or runs doesn't mean he stopped feeling you.

my ultimate outlook on it all for guys and girls is that if you're so afraid why even get involved if you're not ready for a relationship. But most want the perks .. the benefits .. without the title. I think running shows a sign of weakness.

IF you cant take the HEAT then get out the kitchen

you may just be letting the love of your life walk out that front door .. missing out a good thing. That particular person could be Mr. Right or Mrs. Right .. but if you mess that up because you're afraid you might just get LEFT

Authentic Overtime

Unique, Tasteful, Original, and Edgy is what I call Stephanie Gordelle.

she is a Junior attending the Illustrious Clark Atlanta University.

Miss Gordelle is majoring in Fashion Design && Business.

Born in Jamaica .. resides in ATL .. & her dreams will be made a reality in London.

she is looking towards and slowing building her empire in the Fashion Industry.

I think she has a solid foundation already .. just patiently awaiting for BIG things.

she aspires to be a prolific Fashion Designer focusing on High Fashion and Simple Elegance with and Edgy side.

this past Spring Stephanie gave Birth to Dankel .. and Dankel is not a human being

it's one of the loves of her life.

Dankel = a Sunglasses Line also known as "HER Beautifull Mistake."

Bringing "simple Elegance with an edge to notoriety.

the first pair of Dankels were showcased by Project NEXT.

Dankels' bring power and purpose to the existence of the EYE.

These Sunglasses are original eye ware that happen to be unique ..

be sure to follow the rising STAR on "tweeter" @_DanKel_

&& become a fan on FB http://www.facebook.com/pages/DanKel-by-Stephanie-Gordelle

and if you'd like your own custom, hand made DanKel Sunglasses she can be contacted via email

s.gordelle@gmail.com

everyone meet Stephanie Gordelle another student putting in Authentic Overtime to make her dreams a reality!

Ambitious Girl

an ambitious girl is all that i aspire to be

i just wana chase my dreams instead of these men

this song just makes me cry

and speaks to my soul

when i heard this song I thought about my friend Diamond Downs instantly

Diamond is an upcoming Jewlery Designer

she and I share our dreams with each other almost everyday

.. via text, tweet, or phone convo ..

she's the epitome of successful

she was recently featured on http://www.crushyourstyle.com/

she had the chance to work with Kylie Jenner as a style expert in LA

she's been at this for a while and it's paying off

all that i can say about her is that

.... (PAUSE) ....

her drive .. DRIVES me

it's like she never sleeps

&&

is always working

be sure to check out her website that will be coming soon

http://www.cheap-wealth.com/

& her blog at http://www.trendoll.com/

my girl is putting in Authentic Overtime

.. I love you Diamond ..

Suited & Booted

She can NOT sing but is bad as H .. E .. (Double) Hockey Sticks

Cassie is still rocking the fade + length

Authentic Overtime

Jonathan Harper (Memphis, TN) is a rising Sophomore attending Morehouse College with a major in Marketing.

While attending Morehouse college he tends to stay active on campus. He is in the Morehouse Business Association, Morehouse Marketing Association, the Assistant Treasure & Fundrasing Chair of NAACP

.. talking about overtime ..

woosh #BusyBodyMuch

Jonathan = future screenwriter and producer.

I chose to do my first "Overtime" article on him because I think he has potential & he is always writing down his thoughts, trying to get closer to the keys of success.

"every accomplishment, begins with the decision to try."

& I think he's trying.

!.. I think success is his Patna ..!

So make sure y'all go see him on the BIG screen.

World meet Jonathan Harper.

& follow him on "tweeter" @RealJonHarper

&&

be sure to check me out next week for more students putting in overtime to make their dreams a reality.

#CanYourBishDoThat

Boss Bishes is what I call these ladies (Vistoso Bosses) .. they are so edgy & bomb DOT com

I love their rendention of Pretty Girl Swag

.Ringing Bells.

Bells were ringing yesterday (July 10, 2010). NBA Star Carmello Anthony and TV Personality LaLa Vasquez tied the knot in New York City.

In attendance Ciara, Spike Lee, LeBron James, Kim Kardashian, Serena Willams, and Amare Stoudemire.

logical && safe

it's really late & i cannot sleep and my mind tends to wander late at night. so i'm up thinking about LOVE. && my ♡ has been shattered before.

i've thought about giving up on love sooo many times, but that's to easy & i dont want the easy route. i have faith that one guy will come along and change that all, and prove that they are not all alike. my guard has been up so high, i even have the key to my ♡ until my Baby Love comes along. i just want a guy to treat me how he'd expect someone to treat his mom or little sister.

i promise you'll get love + more in return.

my mom and i were talking the other day about relationships & she opened my eyes. she said to me "always trust him, unless he gives you a reason to do otherwise."

&& my momma knows best (=

i had to snap back to reality that if my heart is so caged in .. i'll never experience this feeling again

so buh-bye to safe

i belive that the heart is never wrong but the mind is your bestfriend

but if you're out there and you're reading this blog i trust you

.hood-booger flow.

So Rocko is back as well .. & I must say he did the dang thang with this song! It's a "car thumping" song LOL

..:Summer Jam:..

It's been 5 years, and Pretty Girl Teairra Mari is back on the scene. Her first single this year (Sponsor) did really well. But her new single "Body" is a banger & is what I listen to .. to get ready to hit the streets with my "Tonka Trucks". I'm waiting for her album "Sincerly Yours" to drop.

The Dream Team

June 26, 2003 at the Madison Square Garden in New York City, New York was a special day for three young men. LeBron James (straight out of high school) went in the first round, #1 draft pick to the Cleveland Cavaliers. Chris Bosh (College: Georgia Tech) was the #4 pick in the 1st round, and he was selected by the Toronto Raptors. Dwayne Wade (College: Marquette University) was the #5 pick in the 1st round who went on to play for the Miami Heat. But not only was that a special day for these 3 young men, but now they will all play for the Miami Heat. On July 8, 2010 LeBron James, former Cleveland Cavalier player announced to the public where he would re-establish his career, the Miami Heat. Many people caused an uproar about his decision, and even burned his former jersey. But I feel as if he made the best decision for himself and his family. I think it was a smart move, just business. I read all the updates on my twitter account and many began to compare him to Michael Jordan and how they thought he was crazy for leaving his home team just to get a ring. But I think he could never be compared to Jordan, LeBron is his own ADJECTIVE, and I'm sure he'll work hard to be just as good as Micheal Jordan during his NBA career. My personal opinion .. I think these 3 men are the DREAM TEAM .. (Wade the returning Guard, James and Bosh the Forwards) .. I see another ring for The Miami Heat and congrats to the new team (signing date July 9, 2010).

Locker Room Talk

Hello all. Im new to this, so please be patient. But I wanted to tell you all my purpose for blogging so here goes. I decided to blog to keep you all informed on the latest and greatest "LockerRoomTalk". I named my blog LockerRoomTalk because what do most men talk about in the locker room? .. basically everything .. from Sports, women, partying, even a work out regimen, and what's going on in the world. So I will be talking about sports, fashion, music, and life .. my "LockerRoomTalk". I hope you all enjoy.