
undeRated

Thursday, August 11, 2011
Friday, June 24, 2011
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
.pinky promise.
Monday, March 28, 2011
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Friday, January 7, 2011

so all day yesterday me and my girls talked about "relation[ship]s"
& the topic of discussion "why can't they (they as in boys) act rite?"
everyone had different answers
Answer A: they've been hurt and don't know how to appreciate a good one
Answer B: they just DUMB
Answer C: stop dealing with boys & get a man, and you won't have to worry about them acting rite
they were all correct answers believe it or not LOL, but I'm gonna go with C
i feel like if you have a good girl, realize this, and leave no room for f ups and do it rite the first time around!
Granted a 'ship isn't perfect and gonna have problems, but you have to work them out.
So as I was listening to "No Boys Allowed" I came up with some tips LOL
- you have to know you BAD shawty, self confidence. if you don't think it, who else will?
-if someone hurts you ladies, just think of it as a beautiful mistake and keep it moving
-ladies we have a breaking point, don't tolerate the bull!
-Don't give your heart to a Toy Solider!
-& and if you've dealt with a boy move onto a man & be fearless
-& last by certainly not LEAST .. No Boys Allowed ladies
Thursday, August 12, 2010
.. if you cant take the HEAT ... then get out the kitchen ..
Why is it that when a guy is afraid to commit .. they run?
I posted this question on twitter and got some awesome feedback.
My first response was: because it's easier than standing there and admitting we're afraid. We'd rather show no emotion than show fear or weakness.
Second response: Most guys run because we aren't prepared to settle down however we want the companionship of the woman we pursue. Then there are some dudes that run because they are afraid the might actually fall in love.
Third response: It's not weakness, it's more like uncertainty. & just because he leaves or runs doesn't mean he stopped feeling you.
my ultimate outlook on it all for guys and girls is that if you're so afraid why even get involved if you're not ready for a relationship. But most want the perks .. the benefits .. without the title. I think running shows a sign of weakness.
IF you cant take the HEAT then get out the kitchen
you may just be letting the love of your life walk out that front door .. missing out a good thing. That particular person could be Mr. Right or Mrs. Right .. but if you mess that up because you're afraid you might just get LEFT
Monday, August 9, 2010
Authentic Overtime


this past Spring Stephanie gave Birth to Dankel .. and Dankel is not a human being

Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Ambitious Girl
i just wana chase my dreams instead of these men
this song just makes me cry
and speaks to my soul
when i heard this song I thought about my friend Diamond Downs instantly
Diamond is an upcoming Jewlery Designer
she and I share our dreams with each other almost everyday
.. via text, tweet, or phone convo ..
she's the epitome of successful
she was recently featured on http://www.crushyourstyle.com/
she had the chance to work with Kylie Jenner as a style expert in LA
she's been at this for a while and it's paying off
all that i can say about her is that
.... (PAUSE) ....
her drive .. DRIVES me
it's like she never sleeps
&&
is always working
be sure to check out her website that will be coming soon
& her blog at http://www.trendoll.com/
my girl is putting in Authentic Overtime

.. I love you Diamond ..

Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Suited & Booted
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Authentic Overtime

Monday, July 12, 2010
#CanYourBishDoThat
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Saturday, July 10, 2010
logical && safe

