Sunday, July 31, 2011

Monday, June 27, 2011

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

.pinky promise.

In a relationship she wants 3 things:
1. Eyes that wont cry.
2. Lips that won't lie.
3. Love that won't die.



Monday, March 28, 2011

see we'll be cool just as long as you play your part

ladies and gentleman: know your role and play your part

some of y'all get attached & that's a BIG no, no

you're probably not the girlfriend or boyfriend for a reason

just keep it simple sometimes

state what you want from the start

"no strings attached"

Friday, January 7, 2011

A Beautiful Mishap


so all day yesterday me and my girls talked about "relation[ship]s"
& the topic of discussion "why can't they (they as in boys) act rite?"

everyone had different answers
Answer A: they've been hurt and don't know how to appreciate a good one
Answer B: they just DUMB
Answer C: stop dealing with boys & get a man, and you won't have to worry about them acting rite

they were all correct answers believe it or not LOL, but I'm gonna go with C

i feel like if you have a good girl, realize this, and leave no room for f ups and do it rite the first time around!
Granted a 'ship isn't perfect and gonna have problems, but you have to work them out.

So as I was listening to "No Boys Allowed" I came up with some tips LOL

- you have to know you BAD shawty, self confidence. if you don't think it, who else will?
-if someone hurts you ladies, just think of it as a beautiful mistake and keep it moving
-ladies we have a breaking point, don't tolerate the bull!
-Don't give your heart to a Toy Solider!
-& and if you've dealt with a boy move onto a man & be fearless
-& last by certainly not LEAST .. No Boys Allowed ladies

Thursday, August 12, 2010

.. if you cant take the HEAT ... then get out the kitchen ..

so a very intriguing question was brought to my mind today
Why is it that when a guy is afraid to commit .. they run?
I posted this question on twitter and got some awesome feedback.

My first response was: because it's easier than standing there and admitting we're afraid. We'd rather show no emotion than show fear or weakness.

Second response: Most guys run because we aren't prepared to settle down however we want the companionship of the woman we pursue. Then there are some dudes that run because they are afraid the might actually fall in love.

Third response: It's not weakness, it's more like uncertainty. & just because he leaves or runs doesn't mean he stopped feeling you.

my ultimate outlook on it all for guys and girls is that if you're so afraid why even get involved if you're not ready for a relationship. But most want the perks .. the benefits .. without the title. I think running shows a sign of weakness.

IF you cant take the HEAT then get out the kitchen

you may just be letting the love of your life walk out that front door .. missing out a good thing. That particular person could be Mr. Right or Mrs. Right .. but if you mess that up because you're afraid you might just get LEFT

Monday, August 9, 2010

Authentic Overtime








Unique, Tasteful, Original, and Edgy is what I call Stephanie Gordelle.




she is a Junior attending the Illustrious Clark Atlanta University.




Miss Gordelle is majoring in Fashion Design && Business.




Born in Jamaica .. resides in ATL .. & her dreams will be made a reality in London.




she is looking towards and slowing building her empire in the Fashion Industry.




I think she has a solid foundation already .. just patiently awaiting for BIG things.




she aspires to be a prolific Fashion Designer focusing on High Fashion and Simple Elegance with and Edgy side.





this past Spring Stephanie gave Birth to Dankel .. and Dankel is not a human being




it's one of the loves of her life.




Dankel = a Sunglasses Line also known as "HER Beautifull Mistake."




Bringing "simple Elegance with an edge to notoriety.




the first pair of Dankels were showcased by Project NEXT.




Dankels' bring power and purpose to the existence of the EYE.




These Sunglasses are original eye ware that happen to be unique ..
be sure to follow the rising STAR on "tweeter" @_DanKel_
and if you'd like your own custom, hand made DanKel Sunglasses she can be contacted via email
everyone meet Stephanie Gordelle another student putting in Authentic Overtime to make her dreams a reality!


Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Ambitious Girl

an ambitious girl is all that i aspire to be

i just wana chase my dreams instead of these men


this song just makes me cry


and speaks to my soul


when i heard this song I thought about my friend Diamond Downs instantly


Diamond is an upcoming Jewlery Designer


she and I share our dreams with each other almost everyday


.. via text, tweet, or phone convo ..


she's the epitome of successful


she was recently featured on http://www.crushyourstyle.com/


she had the chance to work with Kylie Jenner as a style expert in LA


she's been at this for a while and it's paying off


all that i can say about her is that


.... (PAUSE) ....


her drive .. DRIVES me


it's like she never sleeps


&&


is always working


be sure to check out her website that will be coming soon


http://www.cheap-wealth.com/


& her blog at http://www.trendoll.com/


my girl is putting in Authentic Overtime




.. I love you Diamond ..








Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Suited & Booted

She can NOT sing but is bad as H .. E .. (Double) Hockey Sticks
Cassie is still rocking the fade + length







Sunday, July 18, 2010

Authentic Overtime

Jonathan Harper (Memphis, TN) is a rising Sophomore attending Morehouse College with a major in Marketing.
While attending Morehouse college he tends to stay active on campus. He is in the Morehouse Business Association, Morehouse Marketing Association, the Assistant Treasure & Fundrasing Chair of NAACP
.. talking about overtime ..
woosh #BusyBodyMuch
Jonathan = future screenwriter and producer.
I chose to do my first "Overtime" article on him because I think he has potential & he is always writing down his thoughts, trying to get closer to the keys of success.
"every accomplishment, begins with the decision to try."
& I think he's trying.
!.. I think success is his Patna ..!
So make sure y'all go see him on the BIG screen.
World meet Jonathan Harper.
& follow him on "tweeter" @RealJonHarper

&&
be sure to check me out next week for more students putting in overtime to make their dreams a reality.

Monday, July 12, 2010

#CanYourBishDoThat

Boss Bishes is what I call these ladies (Vistoso Bosses) .. they are so edgy & bomb DOT com
I love their rendention of Pretty Girl Swag

Sunday, July 11, 2010

.Ringing Bells.




Bells were ringing yesterday (July 10, 2010). NBA Star Carmello Anthony and TV Personality LaLa Vasquez tied the knot in New York City.


In attendance Ciara, Spike Lee, LeBron James, Kim Kardashian, Serena Willams, and Amare Stoudemire.












Saturday, July 10, 2010

logical && safe




it's really late & i cannot sleep and my mind tends to wander late at night. so i'm up thinking about LOVE. && my has been shattered before.


i've thought about giving up on love sooo many times, but that's to easy & i dont want the easy route. i have faith that one guy will come along and change that all, and prove that they are not all alike. my guard has been up so high, i even have the key to my ♡ until my Baby Love comes along. i just want a guy to treat me how he'd expect someone to treat his mom or little sister.



i promise you'll get love + more in return.



my mom and i were talking the other day about relationships & she opened my eyes. she said to me "always trust him, unless he gives you a reason to do otherwise."



&& my momma knows best (=



i had to snap back to reality that if my heart is so caged in .. i'll never experience this feeling again



so buh-bye to safe


i belive that the heart is never wrong but the mind is your bestfriend






but if you're out there and you're reading this blog i trust you